Over time, each of us develops beliefs, habits and ways of behaving that eventually become part of everyday life. Some stem from personal experience, others from our upbringing, the knowledge we acquire or our exchanges with others. In time, many of these reference points become so familiar that we rarely pause to consider them from another point of view. We may even come to identify with them, attributing them to our temperament, disposition, tendency, character, personality or, more simply, to what we think we are.
But how well do we know the field of possibilities within which all this takes shape?
It is a question we rarely ask ourselves, especially when what we do seems to work, reassures us or accords with the idea we have of ourselves.
And yet even what we know and practise with the greatest conviction can become a kind of golden cage: a familiar territory, rich in meaning, in which we continue to move without noticing that other directions exist.
Through ILIANTHEA, we can observe these territories and recognise their possibilities and boundaries, turning our attention also to what remains unexplored or unavailable from the observed position.
At that point, change becomes a possibility to consider, without anyone needing to tell us which path to follow. The tools do not determine what is right or wrong, better or worse, nor do they suggest which behaviours to abandon or which choices to make.
We can then understand the implications of what we have observed and freely decide whether, how and when to explore other possibilities.
All of this is Competenza di Sé.
Every configuration expresses a direction. Recognising it makes it possible to understand its possibilities and boundaries, while leaving open the choice of what to do with it.
The project is evolving.
